Why don ti want a relationship reddit. Not don’t want, don’t need.

Why don ti want a relationship reddit. But I know I’m not the first to say that here… My story started in 2017, I was in my late 20s and had recently moved back in with my family in order to save for the purchase of my own home. I am ok being single for now, going on 16+ years of it. Relationships take work. I want a relationship so we can cuddle, hang out, and rely on each-other. People want relationships. I just cannot see myself marrying a woman who does that and if I can’t even get acknowledgement of it then I don’t want this relationship this isn’t the first second or third time, and it just makes me less confident in our relationship. And by being a FWB to some guy who doesn't want you, you're missing out on possible relationships with guys who do want you. Onwards and upwards, onto the next IMO. I've been doing things single all my life, despite the 5 FWB I had, and it was fun. I don't take those advice to heart but they just loose the credibility in my eyes and I feel bad for it but I can't make myself value that person again like I used to, if they continue talking with no meaning:( I don't want to meet just anyone, when I least expect it. But I just don't want to do it anymore. I'm in that latter group too and it sucks. My ex said this a few times over our brief 5 months "together". I hung on to hope like the fool that I am. If anyone else has felt this way or has advice, I’d love to hear different outside points of view. Thank you for all the advice. I don’t get lonely though, there are plenty of people in the world to talk to. Been burned recently, now I'm a lot more cautious. Being a femcel sucks. a relationship is a luxry in life its not a neccesity but relationships with people are essential to our being as we are social animals, if you dont want a relationship dont have one, if girls want one just tell them direclty they're great but you would rather just be friends. Its not even sexual, not that i don’t like sexual but its for the intimacy, memories, and just having someone i can care for romantically and as a best friend. You are an equal party to this relationship; you don’t have to wait around for him. In my opinion, I’m not going to get into a relationship…. I need more time for myself. Saying you don't want a relationship right now gives the false hope that maybe you will at some point. You need to move forward, OP. ”don’t do that, you’ll be up all night then I won’t sleep” These are just small things though. I can tell you with 100% certainty that the reason men don’t want a relationship with you is that you’re choosing the wrong men. I’ve been on plenty of dates, where I thought “this person is awesome, I don’t want to date them, but they’re a pretty great human. . most of the boys your age dont even know what they’re doing rn lol. I think a lot of people fall into this category, many of whom are in relationships (bad ones). I don't want to plan my life around someone else. I don't want to be vulnerable and open up anymore. You hit the nail on the head. So you guys know the old saying, “If they say they don’t want a relationship, what they’re really saying is that they don’t want to have a relationship with you” but idk if i always believe that. Again I really like her. Having someone telling me what I can and can't to. ” Need to work slightly longer to make money for your family? Why would I want to be with someone who doesn't take it seriously? 2nd is: The ones who would take me seriously are already in a relationship, or just can't get over their exes. When you say “men don’t want a relationship”, what you really mean is one guy you’re hooking up with and another old guy who you know is stringing you along don’t want a relationship. have fun and enjoy yourself! there are plenty of ways to do that outside of a relationship. I love him and want to stay in the relationship but I am starting to feel drained bc being in this situation just pules up the burden i've been going through. Don’t let yourself be convinced. See full list on regain. It could be in 5 years, could be 15, could be never. I just don't seem to have enough time for everything since we've been together. The problems come when these differences are big. After some years I have more clarity on who I am which makes me more receptive to a relationship while also not seeking one. Meaning I had to repair their hearts while meaning less to them than their first relationships. But it doesn’t seem like being single/unmarried is accepted at all in our society and that makes me sad and miserable. But if I'm not feeling it, I tell them straight up that I'm still not fully over my ex and I'm not looking for anything serious right now. I realize I don't need any kind of relationship, but I need one with nurtured love and support. It's not that I don't WANT to, it's just I don't find myself seeking it out. Got a great job offer with future career benefits and more pay in Australia? “I don’t want to live so far away from my family. us Feb 26, 2016 · There are a number of reasons that make women opt out of getting into a relationship with you. I didn't want anything serious at first. Single. But I don't really care at this point ima go and hoop People want kids, people want a spouse. not being in a relationship allows you to focus on your own future more. I don’t want to constantly have someone disturbing your peace (experienced this during my college days). Not don’t want, don’t need. I would tend to agree with you, but I think I'm at the point in my life where I need a relationship. I want to meet a man, who is taking responsibility for his own actions. ” It’s not that I don’t value them, I just don’t feel attracted to them or see incompatibility. I'm not trying to find someone to fit some mold in my life that an arbitrary society says I need to fill. You don’t want to be waiting around for someone, and give them that’s much power over you. Maybe it’s because i’m aro/ace and only attracted to fictional Let her know that you like her and care about her and value her friendship, and that is why you feel the need to be straight up about things--because you don't want to hurt her by unintentionally misleading her, and you don't want to ruin your friendship with her. And then there are some people who don't want a relationship for a variety of reasons, which is fine too. until I decide to have children. For my own hobbies. I got to find me, and live me if that makes sense. Don't make it a talk about sex; if the sex ever happens, later, then it happens. It's not just you; a lot of guys in their mid-late 20s might not be looking for anything serious at the moment. I feel like I give my all in a relationship but girls I meet don't really understand me. I'd love to get married and start a family but I just don't have hope that a kind, beautiful, loyal girl that completely accepts me for who I am exists out there for me Sounds like you want the benefits of a relationship but don't want to deal with the work involved with maintaining a relationship. Time. Him trying to convince you is him projecting his desires onto you and trying to appeal to how your mind thinks, but YOU know that you don’t want it. 💓 Yes, I have opened this up to him for the past three months and he has been saying that maybe it's because I don't love him anymore. Maybe you just like the feeling of being able to have romance and companionship with someone. Note that many women are usually looking for relationships when they meet the perfect guy. I want a relationship eventually. And I don't understand why people can't just say they don't want to be with you. Its an obsession though, its a need i’ve been feeing recently. My sis is genuinely worried that I will get suicidal and depression because I am always alone; but what they don’t know is that I’d rather be alone, it is so liberating! It’s better described as “not a good fit”. The key here is: being open to a relationship if the right person comes along. The most enlightening piece of advice I got was that you literally don’t need a reason to end a relationship. Agreed. Time for my family and friends. These are all valid reasons for being open to finding a relationship. The average age of a first marriage has gone up significantly over the last 20 years, but the number of divorces has gone way down over the last 20 years. I don’t know why you were downvoted, but this was an excellent answer. There's no nice way to say it, but the simple truth is that being a FWB means that the guy likes to fuck you, but doesn't want you as his girlfriend. I worry I'm going to slide right back into the definition of a femcel again (6+ mos of involuntary celibacy as a female) and it's all the fault of this pandemic, for drastically reducing my options and lawful dating capabilities, but also for providing guys with a cliched convenient lame excuse to I know this may be a big reaction but no. I constantly see all these posts with people complaining that they're always looking for someone to fill some void in their lives. I once got stood up three dates in a row (for real guys, I Eventually, everyone lets me down. Every day, they take work. Just because you don’t or you can’t or you know people who don’t or can’t, doesn’t mean that’s universally true. If you don’t want it, then you don’t want it. It kinda sucks. Some might be focused on their careers or just enjoying the single life. I don’t want or need to be in a relationship or getting married. So, if a you don’t need to jump into any relationship if you don’t want to. But don't lose hope! There are definitely guys out there who want a meaningful relationship. I don't want a relationship with anyone. I sometimes want to push that magic button and just have everything “gf related” go away. Time will tell. It's not that I haven't tried either, I've met some great fucking women recently. Don’t get me wrong I still do like making her happy and doing stuff for her but in certain times, especially when I feel clouded. For the past 5 years I had struck out every. There’s many things i don’t understand about being in a relationship or married.

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